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Build Your Own Toi et Moi Ring

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A beautiful reminder of those that matter most to you

Symbolize your personal narrative in a ring, infusing it with meaning that echoes your story, and allowing you to wear a constant reminder of the important people who hold irreplaceable significance in your life that bring you love and joy.

Details

The ring setting is designed to hold the two stones as one instead of two separate stones side by side, an exclusive NHU Jewelry design. 

There is no set combination as this ring is designed for you to completely customize into your own. Unsure of where to start? Previously made pieces can give you inspiration. If you’d like to talk it through and get more specific ideas, I’m here for you. I’m committed to making your vision come to life.

If you haven't contacted me already regarding gemstone orientation and design, I will contact you once you've made your purchase. 

The price listed is for the jewelry setting only. Please follow the instructions below to build your own jewelry.

Instructions

FOLLOW THE STEPS TO CUSTOMIZE

1. Go through the drop down menus and fill out required fields.

2. Add setting to chart.

3. Pick your gemstone(s) for this setting from the stones collection here and add to your cart if you haven't already.  

*The price listed is for the jewelry setting only*

If you have any questions about this process, any of the options, or looking for a specific stone that is not listed, don't hesitate to contact me for assistance!

 

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My dedication is fueled by my obsession to find the perfect dream stone for you. The distinctive character that quality gemstones add to jewelry is not just my excitement but my craft.

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How are the stones selected?

I work exclusively with gemstones that meet my own high standard of wear. Sourced responsibly from ethical suppliers, every gemstone is selected with utmost care for exquisite color, cut, and clarity, ensuring your jewelry is irresistibly stunning.

What if I order the wrong size?

One free resize on solid gold rings is provided within 1 year of purchase. Request to exchange bracelet size will be accepted within 30 days from when you received your purchase. Contact me to have your jewelry piece resized. I'll send instructions on how and where to send your package. Jewelry sent without first requesting a resizing will not be accepted. Buyers are responsible for shipping costs. Resizing can take up to 4 weeks. 

How long does it take to get my order?

Gemstone pieces that are made to order takes 8-10 weeks. Ring bands take 2-3 weeks. This does not include shipping time. You can shop ready to ship jewelry here.

Can you rush make my order or resizing?

Please contact me to arrange a rush order outside of the stated make and delivery times, a fee of $150 applies to move your order up and guarantee a delivery date.

What is your return policy?

Your complete satisfaction is my priority. I'll gladly accept items that are returned unworn and unaltered, in sellable condition and original packaging (tags, pouches, boxes, jewelry care, and gift with purchase if applicable. After 30 days of receiving your jewelry, all sales are final.

Please note the exception of earrings, gift cards, custom sourced gemstone jewelry, and sale items are non-returnable and non-refundable.

Jewelry with gemstones that were sourced custom were cut just for you, I cannot offer returns or exchanges.

For more information, click here.

HANDMADE FOR YOU

Each jewelry piece is lovingly handmade in Canada, and I am dedicated to continuously advance my craftsmanship. I work exclusively with gemstones and materials that meet my own high standard of wear. I believe so much in my product, that I’ll give you your money back if you’re not satisfied!

MADE TO LAST

Wear your jewelry with so much confidence that you can grow your stacks knowing you can pass it down to the next generations. If your preference leans towards colored gemstones, rest assured that I personally source and handpick each gem, prioritizing pristine clarity and cutting that accentuates their beauty, meeting or even exceeding your expectations.

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

How do I find out my ring size?

There are a few ways to determine your ring size. Please take the time to ensure accuracy. 

Your ring(s) can be made in half and quarter sizes.

1. Measure a ring you have that fits the size you desire.



Measurement (mm)

14.0

14.4

14.8

15.2

15.6

16.0

16.45

16.9

17.3

17.7

18.2

18.6

Ring Size

3

3.5

4

4.5

5

5.5

6

6.5

7

7.5

8

8.5

 

Measurement (mm)

19

19.4

19.8

20.2

20.6

21.0

21.4

21.8

22.2

22.6

23.0

23.4

Ring Size

9

9.5

10

10.5

11

11.5

12

12.5

13

13.5

14

14.5

Instructions

1. Place the ring flat on the ruler, measure the inside diameter of the ring.

2. Take the diameter measured in millimeters and use this measurement-conversion chart to find your ring size.

3. Quarter sizes available if you are in between whole and half sizes.       

 

2. Go to your local jewelry store to measure your ring size.

The advantage of going to your local jewelry store to size your finger is that you can receive hands-on assistance and recommendations for ring sizes. Your ring size will have higher accuracy.

     

    3. I can provide local (Calgary, Alberta) personal ring sizing once a purchase is made.

    Please contact me to arrange an appointment.

    Resizing Policy

    One free resize on solid gold rings is provided within 1 year of purchase. To have your ring resized, contact me at n.phan@nhujewelry.com. I'll send instructions on how and where to send your package. Rings sent without first requesting a resizing will not be accepted. Buyers are responsible for shipping costs. Resizing can take up to 4 weeks. 

    How do I find my bracelet size?

    There are a few ways to determine your cuff bracelet size. Please take the time to ensure accuracy. 

    With a Measuring Tape

    1. Take a soft measuring tape

    2. On the wrist you will be wearing the cuff bracelet, wrap the measuring tape around your wrist. Your wrist measurement is where the markings meet. Keep in mind where you will be wearing the cuff if you are wearing a stack of bracelets. 

    3. Take this measurement and use the measurement-conversion chart below to find your cuff bracelet size.

    With a String

    1. Get a piece of string. 

    2. On the wrist you will be wearing the cuff bracelet, wrap the string around your wrist. Mark where the string meets with a sharpie. Keep in mind where you will be wearing the cuff if you are wearing a stack of bracelets. 

    3. Put the string flat on top of a ruler. Measure the length of the string from the end to the sharpie mark. Take this measurement and use the measurement-conversion chart below to find your cuff bracelet size.    

      SIZE CHART

      15cm - Fits up to 5.50"
      16cm - Fits up to 6.00"
      17cm - Fits up to 6.25"
      18cm - Fits up to 6.50"
      19cm - Fits up to 6.75"

       

      Resizing Policy

      Request to exchange bracelet size will be accepted within 30 days from when you received your purchase. To have your bracelet size exchanged, contact me at n.phan@nhujewelry.com. I'll send instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent without first requesting a size exchange will not be accepted. Items returned for exchange must be accompanied with sales receipt, be unaltered, unworn, and in saleable condition. Buyers are responsible for shipping costs. Bracelet in new size can take up to 6-8 weeks to make, this does not include shipping time. 

      What if I ordered the wrong size?

      One free resize on solid gold rings is provided within 1 year of purchase. Request to exchange bracelet size will be accepted within 30 days from when you received your purchase. Contact me to have your jewelry piece resized. I'll send instructions on how and where to send your package. Jewelry sent without first requesting a resizing will not be accepted. Buyers are responsible for shipping costs. Resizing can take up to 4 weeks. 

      What is a Moissanite?

      Henri Moissan originally discovered moissanite in a meteor crater. Moissanite was found to be made of silicon carbide, making natural moissanite extremely are. Moissanite gemstones are now laboratory made. With modern day technology, the color and cut of moissanite stones are exquisite. 

      Moissanite and diamond are commonly compared. Moissanite make a great alternative to diamond as it scores 9.25 on the Mohs hardness scale. They have a higher refractive index than diamond, making their sparkle remarkable. 

      Moissanite weighs about 10% less than a diamond of the same diameter, therefore, moissanite of the same carat weight of a diamond is larger. Listed moissanite stones are identified with diamond weight equivalent carat weight (dew). 

      What is 14K palladium white gold?

      • Gold is naturally yellow. In order for gold to have a white appearance, it is infused with a metal that is naturally white. Typically, white gold is made with nickel.
      • Palladium is a white metal that is in the same group as platinum and rhodium. This shiny metal is mostly extracted as a byproduct of mining other metals such as platinum and nickel. It is more rare than gold, which is reflected in the price. On the market, it is one of the most valuable metals.
      • Palladium white gold is made with 15% palladium and is nickel-free. It is great for avoiding the concerns regarding nickel sensitivity.
      • Gray with a warm undertone. Can be rhodium plated to achieve a bright white color with no warm undertone.

      Do you offer payment plans?

      Payment is due in full for me to start working on your piece. If you would like a payment plan for your purchase, you can provide payment via Sezzle or PayPal Credit. 

      What’s your return policy?

      Your complete satisfaction is my priority. I’ll gladly accept items that are returned
      in unworn and unaltered, in sellable condition and original packaging (tags, pouches,
      boxes, jewelry care, and the gift with purchase if applicable). After 30 days
      of receiving your jewelry, all sales are final.

      Please note the exception of earrings, gift cards, custom sourced gemstone jewelry, and
      sale items are non-returnable and non-refundable.

      Jewelry with gemstones that were sourced custom were cut just for you, I cannot offer
      returns or exchanges.

      For more information, click here.

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      Mandy Wong
      Beautiful Ring!

      For my 40th birthday, I wanted to customize a Toi et Moi ring with my children’s birthstones. I scoured the web but couldn’t find the combination of August and November. Then I found Nhu’s website on Facebook, and I’m so glad I did! Nhu was incredibly responsive, helping me find the perfect style and gems for my ring. She was patient and provided many different options based on my feedback. The ring itself is beautiful - exactly what I wanted. Even the unboxing felt special. Thank you, Nhu, for making this birthday so memorable!

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      Camyll Fortin
      Unique engagement ring! Perfect communication!

      My fiancé had the pleasure of working with NHU to create a custom 'toi et moi' engagement ring, and the experience exceeded all our expectations. From the very beginning, she showed incredible attention to detail, ensuring every aspect of the design reflected his vision perfectly. Communication was constant throughout the entire process, which made him feel confident and involved in every decision. She always gave helpful advice!

      One lovely surprise was receiving a travel jewelry pouch with the ring, as my fiancé had planned to propose during our recent trip. This thoughtful touch really added to the excitement of the moment. As for the ring itself...well it's absolutely perfect. The craftsmanship is exquisite, and it couldn’t have turned out better. I highly recommend NHU for anyone looking for personalized service and top-quality ring!

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      Julee
      Perfect ring!

      Nhu made the most perfect Toi et Moi ring for me with an Opal and Spinel. I had an exact vision for what I wanted and Nhu let me go through what was in her collection, taking all the time I wanted to decide and look at all the options and pairings. She offered great input/advice and was just as enthusiastic and excited about the whole process as I was from start to finish. She gave me regular progress updates and is always easy to contact if I have an questions, even now!

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      Tracy McLean
      Birthstone Toi et Moi

      I LOVE my custom made Toi et Moi ring. Nhu was able to create the perfect setting with the birthstone of my daughters, leaning against one another, joined on a unity band! The symbolism!! 🥲 She was so easy to work with and answered all my questions during the entire process.